Another Birthmother Post

Tian and I had a conversation today about her birthmother. She tries to understand about China adoption and the lack of information. She knows we don't know her birthmother's name, so she thought we could just send a letter to her and write on it "a Chinese woman" and she would get it!

Me: If you were going to write a letter to your birthmother in China what would you say?

Tian: I don't know!

Me: I would want to thank her....

Later that evening...

Me: So have you thought about what you would say?

Tian: I would thank her for carrying me in her tummy. And I would say I'm happy where I am!

Me: Speechless...